When we are not prepared to handle a let-down in a relationship, the hurt travels too deep into the mind. Philosophers say that you should never expect anything from anyone. I really don’t see that as a good way of life. Come on, whats life without expectations? its VOID! It just does not work that way. Expectations are part of life.
Moreover, its not that you are going to have expectations from just about anyone you see on the street. It happens with people whom you believe are responsible, are trustworthy. When these so-called 'responsible' people let you down in a relationship, thats when it hurts, you feel pain. Sometimes you are shocked. It takes time for reality to sink in. After all the pain and fuss, what makes you get on to your normalty path is the fact that you are independent. What happens if you are so dependent on your 'trustworthy' relationship that you cannot function without their support? You either wither away, or you learn to be independent.
So, that said, Do expect, all the nice things that can ever happen :)
but whatever you are dealing with- people, machines..just remember that it’s a highly dysfunctional lot that you are handling. So be ready for mal-functions!
After all, surprises are part of everyday, aren’t they? As if I am gonna accept your argument! Ha ha
This is sounding good, on second thoughts, maybe i should put this under the label gyaan..
3 comments:
hmmm...its bad when committments are broken.if not, u could turn your expectations to committment from the one you expect and the same way back.,
i know you mean well, but i dont understand what you have said pal!
Nice thought, I personally liked this statement," Do expect, all nice things that can happen"....
When the expectations are met the jubilation u get is paramount. That is the real thrill of having a relationship.....Afterall humanbeings the sophistcated form of homosapiens. The distinctive quality they have is thier Emotional inteligence...To put it to test we need surprises know???
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